Choosing the right retirement community is a major life decision. Touring in person gives you the opportunity to see the lifestyle, atmosphere, services, and people who may soon become part of your daily life. It is also the best time to ask meaningful questions that will help you make an informed and confident choice.
This guide walks you through essential questions to ask when visiting a retirement community, helping you evaluate key areas such as care services, activities, dining options, floor plans, community policies, costs, and more. With this knowledge, you can compare communities with clarity and choose the one that truly feels like home.
Questions About Care and Support Services
Understanding care options ensures the community can meet both current and future needs. Whether you are seeking independence now or foresee additional support later, it is important to know how the community can adapt as your needs evolve.
Sample questions:
- What levels of care are available (Independent Living, Assisted Living, Memory Care)?
- Is there a continuum of care, allowing residents to transition smoothly if needs change?
- How is care personalized for each resident?
- What certifications or staff training does the care team have?
Asking these questions helps you determine the level of experience, oversight, and support that will be available to you or your loved one in the years ahead.
Questions About Lifestyle and Activities
A strong lifestyle program offers more than passing the time – it encourages engagement, wellness, social connection, and joy. When visiting, ask how the community keeps residents active, involved, and inspired.
Sample questions:
- What daily or weekly activities and programs are offered?
- Are there opportunities for socialization, learning, and fitness?
- How does the community support residents’ hobbies and interests?
- Are there community partnerships or outings that encourage exploration?
Whether you enjoy fitness classes, book clubs, outings, crafting or live entertainment, activities should reflect a vibrant and engaging lifestyle.

Questions About Dining Options
Meals are more than nourishment – dining is an important part of routine enjoyment, connection, and overall well-being. A tour is the perfect time to explore how dining fits into everyday life.
Sample questions:
- What dining options are available?
- Are meals prepared by chefs and made with fresh ingredients?
- Can dietary preferences or restrictions be accommodated?
- Are there themed meals or special dining events?
Great food and meaningful dining experiences can add comfort and joy to daily living.
Questions About Floor Plans and Living Spaces
Your living space should feel welcoming, comfortable, and personal. Ask about the options available and how much flexibility you have in making the space your own.
Sample questions:
- What floor plans are available, and can I personalize my space?
- Are maintenance and housekeeping included?
- What safety features are built into the apartments or cottages?
- Can I bring my own furniture and décor?
Learning about layout, storage, safety, and customization helps you envision what it would feel like to live there every day.
Questions About Costs and Contracts
Understanding pricing, contracts, and financial expectations up front helps ensure transparency and peace of mind. During your tour, ask for clear explanations of monthly fees, what is included, and what may create additional costs.
Sample questions:
- What are the monthly costs, and what do they cover?
- Are there entrance fees or buy-in options?
- What happens if care needs change – will costs increase?
- Are there financial plans or resources to help manage expenses?
Clarity reduces stress and allows you to confidently compare one community to another.
Questions About Transportation and Accessibility
Easy access to resources helps maintain independence and a strong connection to the surrounding community. This is especially important for those who enjoy staying active beyond their home campus.
Sample questions:
- Is transportation provided for medical appointments, shopping or recreation?
- Are the grounds walkable and accessible?
- How close is the community to local attractions, parks, or health services?
Asking these questions helps you understand how easily you can continue enjoying the activities and conveniences you value most.
Questions About Pets
Pets make a residence feel truly like home. If having a pet within your new home matters to you, be sure to explore policies that a community may hold.
Sample questions:
- Are pets allowed?
- Are there size or breed restrictions?
- Are there walking paths or pet-friendly areas on-site?
These small considerations can make a big difference in comfort and satisfaction.
Questions About Community Reputation and Quality
Trust is essential when choosing a retirement community. Learning about experience, oversight, and resident satisfaction can help you feel confident in your choice.
Sample questions:
- Is the community accredited or certified by any organizations?
- What do current residents and families say about living here?
- How long has the management team been in place?
Hearing from residents and learning about the team’s longevity or certifications helps you determine whether the community is well-established and respected.

Choosing with Confidence
Touring multiple retirement communities can feel overwhelming – but asking the right questions ensures you make decisions based on your priorities, expectations, and comfort. Take notes, compare answers, and trust your instincts as you explore your options.
At Village at Proprietors Green, you will find thoughtfully designed residences, engaging programs and activities, beautiful dining experiences, and a full continuum of care designed to meet changing needs over time. Residents enjoy a warm, welcoming environment where every detail is designed to support independence, connection, and peace of mind.
Ready to See for Yourself?
Visit Village at Proprietors Green today and experience firsthand the vibrant lifestyle, thoughtful amenities, and personalized care that make our community feel like home.


